90s Kid

trauma in general is probably the one thing you’re 0% responsible for yet have to personally deal with 100%.

we’re all old enough now and most likely because of said trauma; have a slightly/very twisted sense of humour that allows us to make light of it. which is a totally normal coping mechanism
often, people think their ailments are the result of ageing, & they may be right. but ailments as a result of unresolved trauma is very real & is hardly spoken about. ‘The body says no’’ by Gabor Matè is a great book that talks about this.

the higher the trauma "load" that someone carries, the greater their risk of everything ranging from depression, anxiety and substance abuse to (more surprising) chronic illnesses like cancer, diabetes, cardiovascular illness
a big part of childhood trauma that carries over into adulthood are problems forming healthy attachments and relationships.

maybe you consistently form toxic relationships with the wrong people (me) since that might be what you’ve subconsciously picked up from your past.

the same goes with being emotionally distant or being insecure due to fear of abandonment. it’s not really your fault, but unfortunately it’s up to you to fix it.
so we use all sorts of coping mechanisms to deal with it. most people drink, which is what the cocktail on the front signifies.

it’s a rather heavy subject, not exactly something you see related with streetwear. but the art is great and being more open about trauma may be a small step to break the stigma around therapy. something that is very prevalent amongst men, and overall in India as well. thanks for reading! shop ‘90s kid’ down below
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